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Nick Arlea posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, September 19, 2022
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I miss you my brother if you were here I'd say Happy Birthday man! Then we would have went for a bite and some drinks and wrote a few songs! Love ya always in my heart! Gone but not forgotten see ya soon one day! Nick Arlea
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Nick Arlea posted a condolence
Thursday, July 14, 2022
I am just thinking about my best friend today well mostly everyday. It doesn't talk about certain important things in his obituary that was most important to him. John had a love for music. He was a songwriter, singer, guitarist and bass player! Yes well Maybe not famous but I can say this, He had influenced many musicians. John had a special spark about him and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't remember his being. John was a gentle soul. He never had a hateful heart! Sure he got angry like anyone else but; John reacted differently than most. I spent alot of time with him writing music and talking about life. I do not want to get to personal here but; John had his haunts! That was the downfall of his being. I know he tried to beat those demons. Sometimes the pain just takes you to another place where the pull is to strong. Anyways; John was my Pal. Well you could say a soulmate with writing songs together. We wrote some amazing songs. We had alot of great times to. Here is our end. I spoke with John about 2 weeks before he passed away. John wanted to come home at that point I was living in an apartment in Jersey and he was in I think South Carolina. I told him get back home if that's what you want and you can stay with me brother. He told me he would consider it. I don't want to bring up anything negative so I won't. Well a few days before he passed. John called me & I missed that call and to this day it kills me to know if I could have helped him. Somehow, someway! I know i tell myself he was already to far gone. By the time I called him back probably 5 days or so later John's mother Rosemarie answered. I was confused at first why is his Mom answering, then I knew before she said anything to me that he was gone. I just bursted into tears before she got those words out! Ugh,! obviously this took me a long time to write this yes! Cause It is now 2022. Look I am sharing this memory and breakdown of events for those who knew him and maybe had wondered about what went on. John's mom said to me he passed away. I felt like I sank to the bottom of the ocean. That truly broke my heart. Rosemarie ( Mom) had been through so much pain already she lost her whole family right then and there! Those of you who know what I am talking about. For those who don't. She lost both sons and her husband. Well I broke down. I just couldn't believe it! Plus This happened during a very difficult time in my life but; it's not about me. John was only 40 years old. The world lost another good soul and great musician. He had so much more to give. John had a God given talent. Just because you don't become famous doesn't mean you're not talented! I wish that I could share with the world his songs. Our songs. I kept going and writing, touring, playing shows and I know John was with me in spirit. I really wanted to become well known mostly & truly to be able to share with the world John's ideas and songs at that point. It just didn't work out that way. It came close but as John used to say, That's how the story goes and that's that! Lol. I am talking too much here so I'm gonna stop for now. Idk if this will even be read?? Just wanna say, John your my brother! I love ya, and thank you for everything. You rest with God now and I hope you get your wish! To Jam with the greats in Heaven. Hey!! Johnny "God don't want me yet man"! That was our thing we said to each other when we got a bit out of sorts! For those of you reading this. That was our saying! God don't want me yet! Anyway I miss ya always my brother. As you know! Thanks for reading Nick A. My email is nickarlea@gmail.com if anyone wants to know more or talk about John. Mom please stay in touch.
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Donna Lupo posted a condolence
Monday, April 15, 2013
My brother Jimmy was Johnny's best friend when the Highs lived in Willingboro, NJ. Our whole family was devastated by this news. We have great memories of hanging out with Johnny and Mark, playing with our toys. Our thoughts are with you Rosemary.
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Lisa (Guglielmo) Plesnarski posted a condolence
Thursday, February 10, 2011
My husband and I went to school with John and are very sad to learn of his passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Colleen (Haney) Spotts posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
Mrs. High,
I regretfully heard of John's passing. I am fortunate to have had him as a friend and he will always be remembered fondly.
Peace and Prayers to all.
Colleen (Haney) Spotts
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john moricz posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
John High was a good guy. I was always friends with him, even though we hadn't seen each other for a while. I will miss him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his mother. RIP my brother
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Michelle MacLeod Oberst posted a condolence
Monday, January 31, 2011
John was such a sweet persn who loved friends and music. I enjoyed being friends with John and am sorry to hear of his passing. He will be missed by many as he joins his Dad and Brother in a better place. RIP John..
Love & Peace.
Michelle
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Jeannene McGill posted a condolence
Monday, January 31, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. I met John about 20 years ago when he was dating Karen. We spent a lot of time together but lost touch over the years. We caught up again a few years ago. He will be missed by many, including myself. May he rest in peace and God be with you at this difficult time.
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Eileen Obermaier Sroka posted a condolence
Monday, January 31, 2011
Dear Rosemary, I am so very sorry, my thoughts are with you...
I have many fond memories of John-we spent a lot of time together in middle school. I still remember his sweet smile...
He will be missed...
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Megan (Davis) Sinkus posted a condolence
Sunday, January 30, 2011
Growing up on small dead end street with a bunch of kids all the same age - we'd have neighborhood flashlight tag games. Our families were very close and we all went to Disney World together. Too many fun memories to mention. Johnny, you'll be missed. Rosemary - you are in my thoughts & prayers.
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Karen Brehm posted a condolence
Sunday, January 30, 2011
I am so very sorry mom. I wish I was closer so I could come see you. You are in my thoughts and my heart.
Love,
Karen
(in California)
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Dana Valent posted a condolence
Sunday, January 30, 2011
Rosemary, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I pray that you find the strength to make it during this difficult time. Your a very strong woman keep your faith in god. Johnny was a good guy! Sending you all our love The Valent-Mitchel Family ( Dana from Bill's ll)
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Dana Gibbs MacArthur posted a condolence
Sunday, January 30, 2011
I am shocked to learn of John's passing at such a young age. I knew John in high school as a very laid back, friendly guy. I'm sure he will be missed terribly by those who were close to him. My condolences to his family and friends, especially his mother. God bless you all.
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Rosella Obermaier posted a condolence
Friday, January 28, 2011
Rosemary,
You know my heart is with you always.
Johnny was a nice person and will be missed by many.
I remember he helped me out by climbing up to my porch to get into my house because I locked myself out.
Love, Rosella
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Patricia & Jeff Ost posted a condolence
Thursday, January 27, 2011
Rosemary, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
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